“People don’t think of [Tinder] as online dating, they think of it as a game,” said Rachel Ellicott, a sophomore at Cornell University who downloaded the app earlier this winter after hearing about it from friends at other schools.“I think of it as a beauty contest plus messaging.” Tinder, which first launched at a University of Southern California party and expanded to other college campuses from there, is part Hot Or -- a site that lets people rate strangers’ appearance -- and part “f*ck, chuck, marry” -- the high-school sleepover game that makes players pick which they’d do to three people.
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And it’s socially acceptable under the guidelines of [the app’s] rules.” Tinder is like The Facebook before it became Facebook: a pure, unadulterated means of dissecting people’s physical appearances, with no extra details about recent articles read or apps used to slow down the judging process.
The secret to Tinder’s success is a small circle that appears below each photo: The “X” button.
In a social media world rampant with “likes,” “hearts,” “favorites” and “thumbs ups” designed to ensure everyone gets along, Tinder actually encourages people to pass judgment in a superficial way.
Though Tinder co-founder Justin Mateen declined to specify how many active users the app has attracted, he said the i Phone app is currently being downloaded 10,000 to 20,000 times a day.
Sixty percent of users check it daily, with many consulting the app five to six times a day, Mateen added.
After signing in with Facebook, Tinder users are shown singles nearby, then asked to “like” or say “nope” to a potential match based on a few postage stamp-sized photos and some scant details about mutual interests and friends.
Only if two people both “like” each other are they allowed to message, reducing the barrage of messages women often receive on other online dating services.
That, however unkind it may seem, holds real allure. Judging on Tinder is “mostly based on looks,” acknowledged Nikki Blank, a Tufts University sophomore who’s helped Tinder with its outreach on campus.
“I think it’s definitely part of the appeal, though.