And if some women take it as an insult – it’s their problem; not yours.
Eye contact with women is one of the most powerful weapons of flirting and attraction that you have at your disposal as both, a male and a human being. Make sure you know how to use it and you use it to your advantage.
This doesn’t mean that you should be staring at every woman like you have never seen a female in your life before or making inappropriate, disrespectful comments to women while staring like some guys do, who don’t know any better, do.
These women are going to know right away that you are a different from the vast majority of other guys and a much more confident guy when you look them in the eye, and then smile and waive at them, saying “How is it going? Surely, developing this ability to maintain eye contact with women and not look away or down will take time.
This doesn’t mean that you should be staring at women in a creepy way from underneath your eye-brows.
There is a big difference between maintaining a confidence eye contact by looking a girl in the eye without acting like you are embarrassed by it or feel like you are doing anything wrong, and looking like stalker And remember, you have nothing to be embarrassed about when you look a woman in the eye. If that woman is not bright enough or too uptight to recognize and accept your male nature, and take it as a compliment, it’s her problem; not yours.
The habit of looking away is many years old for most men and it will take some work and patience to abandon it.
But with time and conscious effort to maintain a strong yet friendly eye contact with women, it will become your second nature.
Most guy “lose” in their endeavors of approaching and meeting women way before they actually make a move. Just think of the typical reality of an attractive, single woman who is interested in meeting men.
Wherever she goes, she knows and feels that guys are checking her out and some do it in the most obvious ways.
But you should look a woman in the eye as if you were proud of liking what you see and showing it to her and not a bit embarrassed of it.
After all, as I pointed out in many other articles and programs, , and therefore – your eye contact with women is a nice gesture of attention to them and a compliment, and not an insult.